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The rebound, the fluffer and the back-up


I speak for women when I say that we need to have all three of these men in our lives. I don’t fully understand men enough to speak for them on this front. But I speak for women and women need them. We really do.

In the course of a woman’s life, she will be heartbroken, she will set her sights on a man that she cannot actually have and try anyway, she will give the wrong man a chance and end up regretting it and feeling like her time and emotions were severely wasted and she will be single and possibly question what is wrong with her and why no potential suitors- the kind that she wants coming her way- aren’t noticing her like she hoped they would. All these are likely to happen to every woman at least once in her lifetime.

Because of all these very unfortunate events, every woman at one point in time or another is going to need a rebound, a fluffer or the back-up. Who are these special men? They are necessary distractions from the cruelty that the world presents to women’s emotions.

For all those who aren’t yet aware of who and/or what these men are, here’s a breakdown for you. You just might realize that you already have them in your life.

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Love in the time of elections


The title of this I think is quite befitting considering that’s the period we’re in.It also has a nice ring to it, doesn’t it? I don’t want to dwell too much on anything to do with elections though…hope I didn’t lose your attention by saying that.

The original title for the silliness that’s to follow was “reasons to have a partner”. Teens, sit down. I’m not talking to you. And here are the reasons why you should have some love in the time of elections.

I’ll start with this so we can get this out of the way.
Because you need someone to call and either celebrate with, be gloomy with or have a stretched debate with over matters pertaining to the presidential elections. Well yes, we have bar debates and whatsapp group debates for that. But how much better is it when it’s with just one other person who either knows just as little or as much as you do about the political, socio-economic climate of our country. You also have someone to bounce your multiple ideas and/or ignorance off of.
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